Friday, January 30, 2009

someone really needs to grow up.

Early this morning, before the usual time I normally wake up, phone was ringing non-stop. I tended to ignore it for the first/second call but the third call caught me up. I thought it would be an urgent call with something important, deep inside my heart, I was expecting mum to call me to ask if I still need anything (cause aunt is coming back soon). But things are normally not so wonderful when you set your expectation too high.

I went down the stairs, I was still partially in my dream. I picked up the phone,
"Hello, is this Edd?"
"Yes." *yawning*
"Hi, this is aunty alice (my legendary guest SHE IS NOT MY AUNT!!! you call everyone Aunty at home!She is just my aunt's 20 years ago churchmates in London), I am calling from Sibu, just want to say hi and happy new year. I met your aunt in Kuching...... ...... ....."
"Ok, thank you. I'm good. How are you?"
"....."
"....."
"Richard (her son) will be going to London this evening and maybe he will ask you out for new year celebration with his friend."
"Oh, ok.. but I don't think I am free tonight. Thanks anyway."
(the worst thing are always at the end)
"Oh. ic.. You see, he is going with his friend and all of them are couples. I'm wondering if he could stay at your place for the weekend and he will go back on monday? He will arrive tonight at 12."
(OMG.. NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!)
"errr.. I am not sure, but I will go out tonight and I am not sure what time I will be back. In fact, I will be very busy this weekend cause my cousin is here and we may go out together. Plus, I have early dental appointment tomorrow and I need to leave home early."
(I was trying to hint her that I DO NOT WANT him to destroy my weekend, but she didn't seem to realise and kept asking me if I have time, if he could stay. bla bla bla.. all the bullshit!)
"Maybe I will ask Richard to text you when he is on the train."
(That is absolutely inappropriate! I am not prepared and will not be prepared to accomodate someone here when I really need my rest with family and friends after a dreadful week..NOT with someone I don't know and I don't want to worry about things being destroyed again!!! NOT THIS TIME)
"Ok~~ (whatever, I will say no anyway) "
"Bye."

I wonder if he wants to stay here why couldn't he call me or text me himself? His mom has to call me from Sibu to let me know the news??? That is absolute ridiculous!! This simply shows that he does not appreciate the stay and being very rude.. If she calls, I will let her know the truth and I will definitely teach her a lesson. I was just too sleepy to defend myself.
Seriously, can you just someone and say you are coming to stay for a weekend and expect you can move in? Especially for someone I barely know... I do not feel comfortable with this. It's not that I'm being unfriendly but this is just not the right time and the way you call just make the whole situation even worse.

THEY seriously need to grow up!!!!

DAMN, Why.... totally destroyed my lovely morning!

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